Imiyalelo:

• Faka igama lakho kwibhokisi engasezantsi.
• Phendula nayiphi na imibuzo engama-20 oyikhethileyo.
• Ikhonkco lakho le-dare liza kulungela.
• Yabelana ngekhonkco lakho le-dare nabahlobo bakho.
• Abahlobo bakho baza kuzama ukuqikelela iimpendulo ezichanekileyo.
• Jonga amanqaku abahlobo bakho kwikhonkco lakho le-dare!

Ngenisa

Buyela eKhaya

Sithini ngokusuka koBuhlobo?

Njengoko sonke sisazi ukuba ubuhlobo bubudlelwane obuphezulu phakathi kwabantu ababini. Ngaloo ndlela, ubuhlobo ngokungathandabuzekiyo luyintloko ebomini bethu. Ubuhlobo ngokuyintloko bubandakanya uhlobo oluhluke ngokukhathalela umhlobo wakho, ukukhathalela okunokuthi ngokufanelekileyo kuqondwe njengohlobo lothando. Uthando nobuhlobo zihlala zihlanganiswa njengesihloko esinye kodwa kukho umahluko omkhulu phakathi kwazo. Ubuhlobo ngokuyintloko luhlobo lolwalamano olusekelwe kuhlobo oluthile lokukhathalela okukhethekileyo umntu ngamnye analo ngomnye njengoko umntu enjalo; kwaye ngelixa kufuneka senze indawo yengqondo ngombono wothando olungaphendulwanga, ubuhlobo olungaphendulwanga alunangqondo. Ngenxa yoko, iingxelo zobuhlobo zithanda ukuyiqonda ingabi nje njengomba wothando oluphindaphindiweyo lolunye uhlobo, kodwa ngokuyintloko kubandakanya ukusebenzisana okubalulekileyo phakathi kwabahlobo njengoko kolu hlobo lolwalamano.

Yintoni ubomi?

Akukho zimpendulo zilula ezinokuchaza ukuba yintoni ubomi. Kwibinzana elinye ukuchaza ubomi "Ubomi luthando". Ubomi zizinto ezininzi kwaye ubomi buqondwa ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo kuxhomekeke ekubeni ungakanani ulwazi kunye nolwazi onalo, kunye nokukwazi kwakho ukuqonda konke. Ngoko ke kukho okuninzi esinokuthetha ngako kuba ubomi yinto enkulu. Kukho imibuzo emininzi emikhulu ekufuneka ibuzwe. Ubuya kufuna ukuba neencoko nabantu abahlukeneyo. Ngoko ke yeyiphi inguqulelo ongathanda ukuyifumana, impendulo emfutshane okanye impendulo ende? Impendulo emfutshane kukuba, akukho mpendulo mfutshane. Kuya kufuneka uyenze incinci umbuzo wakho ube yinto ethile.